Sri Devisri

Kavita, second June ninteen se on 22nd Dec 2014, 1:28pm | Permalink

Sree Sree Sree Devi Shree Guruji,
Namaskaram. I am from Hyderabad. I am a regular viewer of your program in Zee Telugu, Omkaram, and as usual, I saw your program today, 12/22/2014. I felt very bad about one topic that you have spoken of today about wives and husbands. You are a viewer for some many people around and what you tell really plays a vital role in people's life, negative or positive. You said that wives should respect husbands how bad they are. This statement really makes a lot of difference on woman who are facing hell lot of problems from husbands and their families and they are taking away their lives just because there is no support to such "persons" in our Indian culture. Parents tell that husband is "God" even though how bad he is and in-laws and they should not leave them and come out as they are not respected in our society. In this way, how many ladies are taking their lives living their children and parents in vain. Why do I talk about what I have no seen. I will tell you my story, mine is love marriage, my husband was back of me for two years and he was do desperate that he wanted to marry me..we have caste differences, BC and SC. We married without both families knowing with friends help and after that he started his "vishawarupam." I was thinking bad that he had to leave his family as they did not accept us and my parents did and they used to visit us, but I never visited them as my husband was not allowed to visit his parents. Then his parents allowed only him and I myself pushed him to visit them so that they and he are happy...then story went on...I had three abortions first, then had a baby girl and then v decided no for children...he was working for some days and then left that as he didnt like...then after first child's birth he was at home only and I was earning....then he went to South Africa and we lost 5 lakhs...then he came back and we went to our in-laws to live, but separately, in that time he had sold off my 30 tulas of gold, which I had earned on my own, on starting one business and going into loss and then repaying for those debts, then we had second child after 9 years with both of us coming to an understanding that ok....we both will earn for our kids and he joined hotel management paying 70 thousand and he left it just before he was finishing due to health problems, which vanished after he left that. My mother in law and he used to talk much about me and I had to go for working when my younger daughter was 5 months old and he was taking care of her at home and he used to spent hell lot of time with his mother.....she had put somany differences between us that I attempted a suicide to the point that I was almost dead when my younger daughter was 9 months old... after that incident and when I went back, he troubled me to give my ornaments for his business, I had two girls and I had to resist, then he again beat me, which he used to do before also and after my suicide I did not give any complaint on my husband or my in-laws even when the doctor treating me has insisted me to do so, just thinking that my in-laws wouldnt take it, but after that the same started....I decided to get out of the house leaving him to his mother and I did not stayed with my parents, but stayed alone with two girls. I was happy really telling, tension free, but he again came back and we started living together till to date but separately, a few yards away from in-laws.....this is my story.......there are somany dark shades to my life, now I have what I earn per month, no savings in any form and even if I go for loan for anything, all r defaults as my husband used credit cards and my loans and he didnt repay them back and they r on my name with the idea that I should never buy a house in my life of mine......with all my background, I am living with my husband just because I have two girls and the "WORLD" is filled with people with the mind that you have mentioned today on the episode and I didnt want to ruin my girls' future............such husband after watching today's episode along with is telling me, "see your guruji is telling what." We have lots of arguments and he does that in front of kids and I try my level best to avoid, but though I am a woman, but I am human being also. He is telling me now that see your guruji is telling to respect me and you better do that if u really follow him......this is my case, but how many of them are out like me and would be getting such comments and how miserable they would make their lives....will they be able to live happily, which they deserve to be. I agree that there are woman who just torture husbands and their in-laws in the name of court and law...............but dont we see how many of the women were saved by that same court and law and are living their lives happily, which is their part of life. But about the women who are tortured to death by husbands and in-laws and what if they are wanting a second chance in their lives to live and they are backed up just because of this "mean" thinking that any women separated from her husband would not live happily if she is separated and marries the one who loves her and gives her the happy life she wants to...........just think Guruji..........your statement might stop somany ladies lives to fall in danger from being saved by anyone on this earth. I hope I havent been rude by any means...........but i expressed that i felt bad....